Saturday, October 1, 2011

Bye Bye Clothing Dryer!



















With our recent move, we chose to say goodbye to our clothing dryer (a surprisingly rare appliance in Asia) and hello to air-drying all of our clothing. We were trying to downsize our possessions before the move and the dryer weighed A LOT. Besides, I lived without a dryer during my first year in Asia as a single woman - why not now as a married woman with 2 kids? And - Cosi loves to help with the laundry, so it works :)

Well, here's one reason you might want a dryer...



















But on the upside- the clothes will grow along with the kids!

Friday, September 30, 2011

Trey found his tongue (over a month ago)...


Sometime during the month of August, a 4 month old baby found his tongue.


Sometime during the month of September, a tired mother finally got around to taking a picture.

kiddie rides and giving...

The other day, while we were exploring our neighborhood, we passed a convenience store with 2 of those kiddie rides out front. You know what I'm talking about, right? Those large rides shaped like cartoon characters that will jerkily move your child back and forth while playing a poorly recorded kids song, all for the bargain price of less than a quarter. Well, Cosi just loves those rides and begs Daddy for a coin whenever she sees one. And she wants to ride them again and again until Daddy runs out of either coins or patience.
So the other day, when she ran over to the rides and asked for a coin, it was no surprise. While she was riding, a local 2 year old boy came over and climbed onto the ride next to Cosi. Neither he nor his grandmother had any coins on them, but no problem- most kids here are content to just sit on the ride, even if it doesn't move.
Cosi, on the other hand, started asking for another coin before her ride ended. It seemed like she was making a preemptive request to keep her ride going. But much to our surprise, Cosi took the second coin and reached over to the boy on the other ride, giving it to him to use for his ride. We were awestruck- where did she learn that? We were so proud of our little girl and her kind heart.
In the interest of full disclosure, we should mention that in that same week, we bought some fruit to give to local beggars on the street, and Cosi refused to surrender her bag of fruit once we got to the beggars. She had to be "helped" to share that time. I guess that's just a picture of us all- growing in grace, but still inconsistent. Don't judge us by our worst moments, but neither should you judge us by our best. In the end, though, the beggars got fruit, the boy got a coin, and Cosi (we hope) grew a little bit more into a generous, caring young lady

Monday, September 12, 2011

Some Videos About Cosi and Food

As many of you know, our return to East Asia is upon us- we're in the midst of our packing frenzy (which includes last-minute trips to Target and Costco) and are trying to convince Cosi that she is really excited to ride on an airplane for 15 hours.

For those of you in East Asia who haven't seen Cosi since we left in July. here's a little video showing off Cosi's improvement in speaking English- she really has grown a lot this summer! Be ready for a chatty little girl who still wants everyone to hold her. And for those of you who have heard rumors and legends about some of Rob's eating habits in college, this video is proof that Cosi may be taking after her daddy in that respect.



And since we're on the topic of food, here is a funny moment from this weekend, after Cosi had helped April mix the batter for some cupcakes. Once the cupcakes were ready, Cosi wanted to know what happened to the eggs...



And one last anecdote for which we don't have a video- last week we visited a farm, which was terribly exciting for Cosi, who got to sit on a horse's back, touch some pigs, look at cows and llamas, and (most exciting of all) finally pet a cat. Ever since her visit to the petting zoo, Cosi has been a little cow-obsessed, and the night after the visit to the farm, we just so happened to be having steak for dinner. Cosi, filling her belly with green beans, wanted nothing to do with the steak. Then one clever parent asked, "Cosi, do you want to bite a cow?" Her eyes lit up with excitement. "Bite cow?!" she squealed. Yes, of course she wanted to bite a cow! The next 10 forkfuls of steak disappeared as quickly as she could chew them. Now if only we could figure out a way to explain tofu...

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Remembering...


We took the kids to the grave site for the first time. I'm sure it'll be the first of many times. This was a quick visit, but in the future we hope to be able to tell our kids all about their grandpa Bob and grandma Patty. Oh, how excited Bob & Patty would have been to meet their grandchildren! We're pretty sure they would have loved seeing Cosi run around to the different graves and try to pull up the flowers...

They would have loved Cosi's vibrant personality and how she shares the same skin color as her grandma. They would have been thrilled to welcome Trey and see him carry on the Edenfield name. Cosi was asking if she could cook today- we're sure Patty would have loved to teach her some Lebanese dishes. And we can only hope that Bob's fix-it ability (which seemed to run strong in the Edenfield line until it got to Rob) has skipped only one generation and will show up in Trey, so he can help his Mom and Dad around the house.

We could have told them about how Trey found his tongue this week. It makes us laugh so much. Or maybe we would have told them about how Cosi keeps saying "umm....ummm..." just like mommy and daddy unknowingly say it multiple times a day. It's really hard not to have them around. Rob wishes he could ask them for advice as he's learning to be a parent. I wish they were here to love our kids. It still feels like there's a void in our lives. I imagine it will always feel that way.

Monday, September 5, 2011

JMU August 2011


This was our first trip back to the JMU campus with our kids! So (of course) we wanted a picture on the Quad. Would we like our kids to attend & graduate from JMU someday? yes yes!!!! Here's a few more pics for your viewing enjoyment :)


Daddy's arms, daddy's ears & baby Trey.

People still walk their dogs on the Quad - Cosi was excited to touch a dog and so was our friend Spencer!


Here's Trey with Cosi's shirt laying on top of him. Too bad his parents are cheap and wouldn't buy him his own shirt! They just expect him to grow into Cosi's old shirt ;)

This picture is of Cosi & daddy at the music building. Daddy spent many long hours at this building. Maybe Cosi will be a music major someday...
And one more picture of Trey b/c he's too young to run away or have a choice in picture taking!

***Most surprising change at JMU = the new stadium!! Oh my!! It's amazing and gigantic. We would have taken a picture, but we were driving by it in a car and the kids were fussy.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

The Prince William County Fair

The Prince William County Fair is held within earshot of April's parents' home- or at least the demolition derby is in within earshot. Of the four of us, April is the only one who has been to a county fair, so this was a novel experience for Rob and the kids.

The most exciting aspect for Cosi was the petting zoo. Cosi wants to explore her world through touch, and some very gentle animals got to be a part of the Cosi experience. The funniest moment was probably when Cosi would squat down next to each goat, put her face up to theirs and say, "Hi!" This led to the second funniest moment, when Cosi bothered a goat while he was eating and he gave her a gentle head butt!



















Watch Cosi greet the goats and try to experience as much of the cow as possible...


Cosi tried a few rides. The carousel freaked her out. Thank goodness it was a short ride! She refused to try the horse and ended up on the sleds. Then, mid-ride, she desperately wanted on a horse. Of course her mama disregarded any 'no standing up' rules and obliged Cosi's request. The difficulty then was that Cosi got nervous and April couldn't figure out whether to hold her flailing daughter on the horse or pull her off....kids!?!


















The roller coaster, however, was a different story. She was excited before the ride, thrilled during the ride, and eager to try again after the ride. Cosi and April are in the very front of this one:


















Another ride that got a Cosi thumbs up was the high slide. Cosi and Rob are at the top:























And here they are, all smiles at the bottom:























The fun house slide, however, did not get quite the same reaction:


















In case you can't see Cosi's reaction clear enough:



















Trey, being too young to enjoy the finer aspects of the fair, instead kept himself entertained by gripping his toes, an activity that keeps him busy for disturbingly long periods of time:


















And of course, we made time for one of those great American culinary traditions- the deep-fried Twinkie, topped with strawberry sauce. We've heard these being ridiculed for years, so April had to finally try one. Verdict = tastes like strawberry shortcake, but not worth $3. Meanwhile, Rob was enjoying his first deep-fried Snickers. Verdict = ok, but you'd be surprised how long that snickers holds heat, don't burn your mouth! Mmmm...


















So what did we think of the fair? Well, it was tasty, fun, and very American. The petting zoo was the best part! And we enjoyed spending a few hours with Nana, Pawpaw, Tasha, and Jadyn. We had some good new experiences, and we learned never to interrupt a goat while it's eating!

Earthquakes and Door Frames

We just experienced an earthquake in Virginia- 5.9 magnitude or something like that.

Rob's reaction:
"What is that rumbling? Why is the house shaking?"
Hurries over to a door frame, just in case.
Wonders if it is a low-flying airplane or a big construction truck rolling past.
Realizes that the entire house is shaking.
Still in the door frame, tells everyone else to get under a door frame.
Moves to a different door frame so that April and Tasha (with the kids) can use the nearest door frame.
Door frame!
Runs to the computer to find out what happened- considers taking the computer back to the door frame...

April's reaction:
"What's going on?"
"Is this an earthquake?"
(In a happy, excited voice) "Is this an earthquake?"
Runs to the stairs to make sure everyone upstairs knows there's an earthquake.
Finally realizes that Rob wants his family under door frames, so she stands under the safety of a doorframe- for a second. Then, too excited to stay still, she runs back out into the basement and announces "It's an earthquake!"
Wonders why Rob keeps talking about door frames since the house wasn't crumbling yet.

Cosi's reaction:
Sees mommy laughing and excited.
"Wheeeeeeee!!!!!!!!"

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Summer in the 'Burbs- in Pictures

It's a summer of firsts- Trey's first time in the US, Cosi's first time in a pool, first trip to the beach, etc. And like all good parents, we've got our cameras handy for all those moments, as well as the mundane ones. Here's a few snapshots of life in the States this summer (as always, remember that you can click on a picture to enlarge it).

Cosi's day almost always includes a walk through the neighborhood. One in the morning and one in the evening, whenever possible:


















Cosi really likes it when the whole family goes on a walk. She either pushes a baby doll stroller or tries to "help" Mommy push Trey's stroller.
















Cosi really likes to 'help'. Laundry, vacuuming, carrying groceries- yesterday at the mall she offered to help an employee push a cart of merchandise. She was politely refused.

An almost daily part of Cosi's routine is helping Mommy or Nana water the flowers. (Truth be told, Cosi usually ends up as wet as the flowers...)























Trey got a nice big gift from Mommy and Daddy (OK, who are we kidding, the gift was for ourselves as well!)- a bouncy seat! At first he wasn't too sold on the idea:
















But he warmed up to it:
















And now he plays in it so much, we're worried about it getting water damage from all his drool!
















An essential part of every sunny day is a dip in the pool. For weeks before arriving in the US, we were trying to prepare Cosi for the swimming pool, but how do you explain that in terms she can understand? We opted for telling her about the "big bath outside," since baths and being outside are two of her favorite things. She took to the pool like, well, like a fish in water. The challenge is that she will try to jump in the water even when she doesn't have floaties on. After a few trips to the deep end (Rob, April, and Pawpaw have all taken turns jumping in to pull her out), we now have a "floaties on before you leave the house and until you get back inside" policy.


















However, our little extrovert does not like to be the only one swimming. If you even think about sitting poolside, she'll insist "Mommy jump? Please? Daddy Jump! Push Daddy!" (She likes to 'push' Daddy in the pool, a fun activity we probably shouldn't encourage.)


















For Cosi, no day is complete without a bath, and last week she got a particularly special bath- she got to share one with Trey! guess which of the kids was more excited about that idea:
















A number of people have asked how Cosi is dealing with having a baby brother. The short answer is that she's doing very well. She loves him and is fascinated by him. She likes to bring him toys, pretend to feed him (mimicking how Mommy feeds him), she tries to make him laugh, and she always wants to hold him. She still has moments of jealousy, but overall she's becoming a great big sister. Trey, overall, really likes his sister. He is fascinated by her, and yet he also has a healthy fear of her (she's quite unpredictable and is prone to sudden ear-piercing squeals).























Shortly after arriving in the US, we were treated to a beach vacation. On the way down to the beach, we spent some time with family in Newport News, and Trey got to hang out with his "twin cousin":
















The beach was exciting, and Cosi certainly turned a few heads:


















Trey, too, got to spend some time on the shore and seemed to enjoy it:


















While at the beach, Cosi really, REALLY enjoyed riding on and driving the golf cart around the resort (more on that another time- a true cross-cultural experience). The problem is that ever since then, Cosi has wanted to drive every vehicle she sees. I thought I had at least 10 more years before she started bugging me to give her the keys to the car!


















And what is more suburban American than running through a sprinkler in the summer?









































In our next post, we'll share about our recent trip to that great American summer tradition- the County Fair! (Cosi + Roller Coaster + Deep Fried Twinkie = ?)

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Laughing Baby

Yes, we realize it has been a while, and we promise many more pictures, videos and updates in the near future. But until then, please entertain yourself by watching this video of an out-of-shape Rob trying to keep an adorable little boy happy. You have to watch the second half to see why he's laughing...